Relationships.

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Thanks Dear,

For detailed information.

I didn't want to ask you all those things.

I hope you are a mature lady and see the realities of life. Not your or my or 

of the society,but 'we' as human-beings. And no one is guilty.When one

accepts oneself as a human-being only, not a male or female, child or

adult, Indian or American or an Argentine, the perspective changes.Then

we are sensitive to every-one. Then we love every-one, but not 'attached' to

any particular person in any way. We may be related, but not concerned

about others' life at all. We help, If we can, to who-so-ever that needs help.

That is all.

But when we seek security in relationship, that is an imaginary problem, 

and there is no answer. The Future that 'happens' is altogether different from

what we fear, or desire about. In that way it is uncertain. And in a relationship

of any kind, -we imagine, expect, hope, fear, compromise, commit, complain,

become depressed or annoyed, but hardly understand the other, and more 
so, to ourselves.


For understanding, one needs to be 'connected', open, insecure,

vulnerable, -for the hopes may shatter any moment. The whole picture may 

change in a split-second. If we realize this reality of life, we are not afraid, we

don't expect, we don't hope, we are neither depressed, nor annoyed with life.

We are not guilty, and never ask any god a pardon.

It is simple. 

If we are willing, serious, and don't get carried-away with sentiments.

So, here rests the life.

Regards,

-vinay.